How To Share Your Secret Fantasies
(and make them happen)
For men and women, lovers, and curious sexual beings
FREE 90 MINUTE WORKSHOP
2,000+
Professionals trained
in 3 continents
18+
Years teaching effective communication
500+
Hours of coaching & workshops facilitation
120+
Happy couples
10,000+
Podcast downloads
You’ve been keeping parts of yourself secret for a long time.
You’re tired of hiding what’s on your mind.
You wish your lover could know your kinky side.
This is the workshop you've been waiting for.
20th May 2026
6 pm UK time
🤔 Maybe it’s a threesome you’ve been dreaming about for 20 years but, like me, you never told anyone
🤔 Maybe it’s power play, BDSM, or same-gender curiosity — something that makes your body tingle. You tried hinting at it but got cut off, so you kept it to yourself all these years
Your relationship is solid and loving, but you still have secrets. Some days that’s fine. Others not so much.
There’s an entire version of your sexual life that only feels safe to exist in your imagination – even with a long-term partner next to you.
🤔 Or maybe you got out of a relationship because you were done compromising on your authenticity and desire. Now that you're dating again, you’re ready to own yourself, and be fully seen – with all your kinky secrets.
This idea is exciting. This version of you wants to come out - but just doesn’t know how.
This is the live workshop for you
20th May 2026
6 pm UK time
DON'T WORRY! You won't be asked to share your fantasy on this session
Here's what happened to me.
One night, a man I was seeing told me his fantasy:
We are in a dark room full of strangers. The sound of heavy breathing all around us. Hands on my body that might not be his...
What I loved about it was that he wasn’t afraid of what I might say.
He wasn’t apologising. He just owned it - without demanding anything of me.
That was the sexiest thing I had ever experienced. I wasn't used to this kind of masculinity.
I married that man and, years on, we are still having the best sex of our life.
If you want to be that man or woman.. If you want to own that confidence..
You've got to have an easy, proven framework that, not only prevents a relationship disaster, but also enables you to express yourself fully (and worry-free).
This workshop gives you exactly that. For free.
Past participants have said:
Rebecca H., Dubai
Hannah W., Washington DC
Imad D., Beirut
Sam F., New York
Have you considered the cost of your silence?
1) Another year passes. Another fantasy shows up. Another thing you suppress and hide.
2) You’re only half-present in bed, half somewhere else. They notice but don’t say anything. The silence becomes louder for both.
3) You tell yourself you need to protect them from your “dirty mind”. But who are you really protecting? And what from?
4) You go through the motions of a good relationship. Silence progressively brings you apart. Nobody says anything, but connecting becomes more difficult.
Maybe you're not in such a "tragic" space yet. Excellent! You're still in time to make a change.
But picture yourself in 10 years where NOTHING has changed and tell me how happy you are...
Most people think they need to hide their fantasies for their partner’s sake. They overthink it.
After years of working with people on exactly this, I can tell you that it’s rarely about their partner.
Overthinking isn’t a problem.
It’s the proof you’re ready.
What’s blocking you is not your partner.
The real block is the idea that they might not understand your fantasy, combined with
your lack of method for 1) not pressuring them; 2) feeling received for who you are.
"Since your workshop I’ve been watching myself open up to all sorts of new possibilities!
It's like I suddenly learnt how to speak more honestly to both myself and my partner. "
- Kat U., London
You've got something playing in your head. So does your partner.
Threesomes, bi-curiosity, BDSM, exhibitionism, group play, role play, dirty talk...
These are not symptoms to hide.
They are normal human desires that most people shy away from talking about,
because nobody taught them how.
There will be unnecessary drama without the right language and proper attitude.
And you are just one workshop away from that (and from having a completely different sex life).
Adventures for two (or more), sexual exploration, deeper connection are all just a workshop away.
You watched 50 Shades of Gray.
You dream of being in a similar playroom.
Maybe you're HER - on her knees waiting for orders.
Maybe you're HIM - slowly taking off his belt.
You wish this was not just a movie... but how?
Hot fantasies can easily be turned into reality, as long as you plan them right and, most importantly, you have clear conversations about what you want and don't want.
Replacing "we need to talk" with dreaming and scheming together can be very sexy.
If you wonder where to start, I can show you how.
What This Workshop Is:
It's not therapy. It's not Tantra.
It's not another online course. Nor a pdf you’ll never use.
It’s a practice room.
You come in with your secret fantasy.
You leave with the first 3 steps you can take that same night to no longer feel blocked.
5 spots left.
What You’ll Walk Away With (And Be Ready To Use Immediately)
After 90 minutes, you walk away with:
The 3 practices you can use tonight to feel more at ease sharing your kinks
How to shift your own energy, so when you do bring it up, your partner is open to listen
New clarity on the real reason you’ve been holding back your fantasy
A playful, pressure-free game to open the first door
2,000+
Professionals trained
in 3 continents
18+
Years teaching effective communication
500+
Hours of coaching & workshops facilitation
120+
Happy couples
10,000+
Podcast downloads
This is for you if:
You desire to show up authentically in your relationship.
You're done hiding and you want a proven method that works
You want a mentor you can trust - someone who personally walked the walk.
You tried AI and got disappointed by the impersonal, useless advice
You feel ready. Not "thinking about it" ready. Actually ready.
You've already done some inner work, and you want to continue to invest in yourself
You want to stop hiding your fantasies and start living them with your partner
You're in a solid, loving relationship OR - you left a relationship that was no longer serving you. You're back to dating with your priorities straight. You’re DONE compromising
You want no more drama, no more sense of guilt, no more self-censorship. It's time to be YOU.
This won't work for you if:
Your relationship is in crisis - this will NOT fix it
You haven’t done any inner work — you need that foundation before working with me
You're hoping to "convince" someone to do something they are not ready for
You're just looking for erotica and random hookups - this is not the platform for you
Allie H., Amsterdam
Sima A., Dubai
Learn to share your kinkiest fantasies. Show up with no fears.
Get ready for the best sex of your life.
5 spots left.
Your Host: CHIARA HARDIE
Founder of the Deeper Lovers Method™. Trained by Tony Robbins, Esther Perel, Gabor Mate'.
International workshop facilitator, podcaster and mentor.
Two decades specialising in psychology, effective communication and sexuality taught me exactly what makes people hold back in sex — and what becomes possible when they don't.
I’ve trained over 2,000 professionals. I’ve helped 120+ couples find the right language to share their most taboo fantasies — and in many cases, make them happen.
My work is all about TRANSFORMATION.
I host of a very personal podcast with thousands of downloads about sexual exploration, desire, and the conversations most people avoid, yet are eager to have.
I run deep intimacy experiences and programmes for men and women who are keen to communicate better, grow together, exploring deeper ways to connect.
I help people find their voice and safely explore their kinks and fantasies, sometimes adding people to the mix, always enhancing their relationship.
I'm not your therapist, nor your guru.
I’m just a few steps ahead of you on the same path. And I’m here to share everything I’ve learnt on the way - so you don’t make the same mistakes, nor you waste 20 years in silence like I did.
What's been said about this workshop:
Katrina P., Toronto
Sarah V., London
Lucy F., Mexico City
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Will I be asked to publicly share my secret fantasy during the workshop?
NO. My #1 priority is confidentiality and providing a safe space.
You will be able to work on this in your own space, following my prompts.
You will not need to speak into your microphone either, so you can easily participate even if you're in a public space, in your office or on the bus.
How is this different from therapy or couples counselling?
It's not therapy. Therapy works on the past. This works on the future.
You're not here to process — you're here to act. And I help you take that action.
While I have studied various forms of therapy - including trauma-informed and primal therapy, I will not fix you or your crisis. I am here to show you what's possible for you when you learn to lean into your Authenticity.
By working with me, you become fully comfortable in having conversations about sex, desires and fantasies.
Most traditional therapists would never go near the experiences and environments I'm plugged in and that I learnt from. These spaces are very taboo for most common people. The openness and ease I've developed around non-traditional sexuality is very uncommon: you can talk to me about anything and I won't be surprised - come to the live workshop and see for yourself.
Is this workshop free?
YES. It's completely free for you to attend. You can join from anywhere.
Do I need to be in a relationship?
No, you don't need to be in a relationship to benefit from this workshop. Singles who are actively dating are also welcome.
The workshop gives you the tools to feel at ease sharing your secret fantasies with anyone you like - whether it's your boyfriend, wife of many years, tonight's new date, or a FWB.
You might want someone to practice with AFTER the workshop.
What professional qualifications do you hold to be my guide on this journey?
Beyond having seen and tried it all first-hand in the world of sexuality, traditional relationships, open-relating, marriages and divorces, I hold a MA in Business Communication, I am an ICF certified coach accredited internationally, and I am trained in various disciplines helping you communicate and connect the mind with the body - CBT, NLP, Compassionate Inquiry, Ido Portal's Movement, Somatic Experiencing, Neo-Tantric practices, dearmouring, YA200 yoga teacher, trauma-informed primal therapy, bodyworker.
My partner doesn't know I'm doing this. I don't need to bring them along, right?
Absolutely!
Most people who come to the workshop start on their own — one person deciding to take the first step is all it takes. The workshop will actually help you figure out how and when to bring your partner into the conversation.
My fantasy is quite extreme. Is this still for me?
There's no such thing as "extreme". Every fantasy and kink is very subjective for each person and what is extreme to you might not be to someone else.
The workshop is set up in a way that everything is welcome - with kindness, compassion and no judgement from anybody.
Believe me, I have seen it all, and you are safe in this space with me.
20th May 2026
6 pm UK time
Only 5 free seats left.
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