FREE LIVE WORKSHOP:

How To Share Your Secret Fantasies

(make them happen)

and Upgrade Your Sex Life

For men and women, lovers, and curious sexual beings

You've had the relationship.

You have the career and the money. You think you've won at life.

Yet, there's something missing.

Sex is good, but there's still something you can't tell anybody. You wonder:

Could sex feel better and more connected? What else can we do to avoid "routine boredom"?

I wish I could explore... [INSERT YOUR FANTASY]

You've already had the therapy. You've done the soul searching and the healing.

You know who you are, what you want, and you're ready for some action.

But you lack a plan, a framework.

The truth is...

👉🏻 You've had secret fantasies for years that you still don't dare sharing.

👉🏻 You're ready to act on that kink, but you don't know where to start.

👉🏻 You want to explore your sexuality in a different way.

👉🏻 You dream of telling them plainly what really turns you on - all of it.

This Live Online Workshop is for you

15th April 2026
6 pm UK time

DON'T WORRY! You won't be asked to publicly share your private fantasy in the session

Past participants have said:

Rebecca H., Dubai

Hannah W., Washington DC

Imad D., Beirut

Sam F., New York

You've got something playing in your head. So does your partner.

Voyeurism/exhibitionism, gay/bi-sex, threesomes, power play, dirty talk, non-monogamy...

These are very common fantasies most people have.

But how can you explore them AND keep your relationship safe?

You need clarity on what you want, the right choice of words, and the confidence that they will land the way they are meant to.

Or there'll be unnecessary drama and your fantasy will remain a distant dream.

"Since your workshop I’ve been watching myself open up to all sorts of new possibilities!

It's like I suddenly learnt how to speak more honestly to both myself and my partner. "

- Kat U., London

Adventures for two (or more), sexual exploration, deeper connection are all just a workshop away.

You watched 50 Shades of Gray.

You dream of being in a similar playroom.

Maybe you're HER - on her knees waiting for orders.

Maybe you're HIM - slowly taking off his belt.

You wish this was not just a movie... but how?

Hot fantasies can easily be turned into reality, as long as you plan them right and, most importantly, you have clear conversations about what you want and don't want.

Replacing "we need to talk" with dreaming and scheming together can be very sexy.

If you wonder where to start, I can show you how.

It took me almost 20 years to have the threesome I'd been fantasising about.

I was lucky to find someone who helped me make it happen.

I married him, and we've been having the best sex of our life since.

Would you like to know how?

This is for you if:

you're in a SOLID loving relationship OR you're single and ready to explore
you know deep down there’s a whole sexy world for you to explore
if you're in a relationship, you’re curious about bringing more people into the mix, but you don't want to date separately
you've heard of polyamory and wonder how people do it
you want to explore a side of your sexuality that you've always kept to yourself
you want to explore your kinks - sub/dom dynamics, role play, a threesome, exhibitionism, BDSM, same-gender, or others - with or without a partner

This won't work for you if:

your relationship is in crisis: this will NOT fix it
you’re after random hookups and transactional sex
you’re hoping a threesome will magically save a dying relationship
you're hoping to convince your partner to do something they don't want to do
you feel like a victim, and just want to vent

Keeping fantasies to yourself is costing you - in missed pleasure and missed growth opportunity as a couple.

You're preventing yourself and them from experiencing bliss, connecting at a deeper level.

Many successful people in thriving relationships still hold back their fantasies - not because something is broken, but because they don't know what's possible, and don't have the tools to experiment safely.

Allie H., Amsterdam

Sima A., Dubai

Learn to share your kinkiest fantasies. Truly connect with no fears.

And get ready for the best sex of your life.

What You’ll Walk Away With (And Be Ready To Use Immediately)

The 3 shifts you need to spell out your sexy fantasy, aka learn to express yourself with clarity and safety

The 3 practices you can use tonight to feel more at ease sharing fantasies with your lover, partner or spouse

The 3 steps to start your sexual exploration journey - together with your partner

The switch from "we need to have a boring conversation" to "let's play and have fun together!"

How to co-create a clear plan of action to make your fantasy come true

2,000+

Professionals trained

18+

Years teaching sales and communication in 3 continents

500+

Hours coaching individuals, facilitating workshops and retreats

120+

Happy couples

10,000

Podcast downloads

Your Host: CHIARA HARDIE

Founder of the Deeper Lovers Method™. Trained by Tony Robbins, Esther Perel, Gabor Mate'.

International workshop facilitator, podcaster and mentor.

Fascinated by human psychology, I learnt how everything was about PEOPLE AND TRUST, and I specialised in sexuality: deep human connections, intimacy, kinks - pushing the boundaries of curiosity.

Two decades of romantic relationships and heartaches taught me how you can positively impact all your relationships through radical honesty, and how you can achieve REAL HAPPINESS AND FREEDOM by getting rid of fear.

My work is all about TRANSFORMATION.

I’ve led multiple workshops on healing trauma, deconditioning, and deeper emotional connection.

I’ve trained over 2,000 professionals.

I've helped 120+ couples find the right language to share their most taboo fantasies and - in many cases - turn them into reality.

Today, I run deep intimacy experiences and programmes for men and women who are keen to grow together, exploring deeper ways to connect.

I help people find their voice and safely explore their kinks and fantasies as a couple, sometimes adding people to the mix, always enhancing their relationship.

I'm also the co-host a very personal podcast about sexual exploration, desire and the kind of conversations most people avoid, yet are eager to have. I say the unsaid.

My name is CHIARA, and I am driven by love, fearlessness and freedom.

Everything I do is founded in radical truth, openness, self-expression and trust.

Welcome!

Katrina P., Toronto

Lucy F., Mexico City

Sarah V., London

Free Online Workshop

15th April 2026

6 pm UK time

Limited to 50 Seats. Book Now

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Will I be asked to publicly tell my secret fantasy during the workshop?

NO. My #1 priority is confidentiality and making people feel safe.

You will be able to work on this in your own space, on a piece of paper, following my prompts.

You will not need to speak into your microphone either, so you can easily participate even if you're in a public space, in your office or on the bus.

How is this different from therapy or couples counselling?

While I am trained in various forms of therapy - including trauma, I prefer to work with Transformation.

I am not here to fix you or your crisis. I am here to show you what's possible for you when you learn to lean into your authenticity.

What I do is help people have specific conversations about sex, desires and fantasies that most therapists never go near.

Is this workshop free?

YES. It's completely free for you to attend. You can join from anywhere.

Do I need to be in a relationship to benefit from your workshop?

NO. The workshop will give you the tools to feel at ease sharing your secret fantasies with anyone you like, whether it's your boyfriend, wife of many years, tonight's new date, or a FWB ;)

What professional qualifications do you hold to be my guide on this journey?

Beyond having seen and tried it all first-hand in the world of sexuality, relationships, marriages and divorces, I hold a MA in Business Communication, I am in ICF certified coach accredited internationally, and I am trained in various disciplines helping you communicate and connect the mind with the body: CBT, NLP, Compassionate Inquiry, Ido Portal's Movement, Somatic Experiencing, Neo-Tantric practices, dearmouring, YA200 teacher, trauma-informed primal therapist, bodyworker.

My partner doesn't know I'm doing this. I don't need to bring them along, right?

Absolutely!

Most people who come to the workshop start on their own — one person deciding to take the first step is all it takes. The workshop will actually help you figure out how and when to bring your partner into the conversation.

My fantasy feels quite extreme. How open can I be?

There's no such thing as "extreme". Every fantasy and kink is very subjective for each person and what is extreme to you might not be to someone else.

The workshop is set up in a way that everything is welcome - with kindness, compassion and no judgement from myself or the other participants. And believe me, I have seen it all.

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